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We believe that our first duty is to those we serve, and that we must adapt our services to their wishes. In addition, we realize that there are few persons who can afford to ignore price, no matter what they are purchasing. Consequently, we offer a wide and representative selection, something proper and appropriate for any families need's, and at a price they can afford. Our continued pledge will be to make our services comprehensive, appropriate, and reasonable; constantly adhering to professional ethics and a code of unselfish service to our clients.

- C. William Stoodley

Recent Obituaries
Viola Bowman
d. 12/14/2014
Bernard Moore
d. 12/13/2014
Helen Farman
d. 12/13/2014
George Frizzell
d. 12/13/2014
Viola Kirby
d. 12/09/2014
Ira Town
d. 12/08/2014
Douglas Snyder, Sr.
d. 12/06/2014
Wesley Crump
d. 12/05/2014
Danny Fennell
d. 12/02/2014
Randy Landry
d. 11/29/2014
Edgar Elmore
d. 11/27/2014
Ruth Frasier
d. 11/24/2014

Expressions of Sympathy

A friend has experienced the death of someone loved. You want to help, but you are not sure how to go about it. This article will guide you in ways to turn your cares and concerns into positive actions.





Listen with your heart.
Helping begins with your ability to be an active listener. Your physical presence and desire to listen without judging are critical helping tools. Don't worry so much about what you will say. Just concentrate on listening to the words that are being shared with you.

Your friend may relate the same story about the death over and over again. Listen attentively each time. Realize this repetition is part of your friend's healing process. Simply listen and understand.

Be compassionate.
Give your friend permission to express his or her feelings without fear of criticism. Learn from your friend; don't instruct or set expectations about how he or she should respond. Never say, "I know just how you feel." You don't. Think about your helper role as someone who "walks with," not "behind" or "in front of" the one who is mourning.

Allow your friend to experience all the hurt, sorrow and pain that he or she is feeling at the time. Enter into your friend's feelings, but never try to take them away. And recognize that tears are a natural and appropriate expression of the pain associated with the death.

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